1) How did I find Weddingbee?
I’ve been reading wedding blogs since before I was engaged, but just for the articles, I swear. I found two wedding blogs kept popping up in searches I was doing for various craft projects and techniques – Once Wed and Weddingbee. I never subscribed to any of them at that point (what if Cinnamon Buns found out? We hadn’t talked about marriage! He might run away screaming!) but I kept coming back for the tutorials – Weddingbee was especially interesting because of all the authors and all their different styles of projects. When we actually got engaged, I was free to add Weddingbee to my Google Reader and not worry about whether Cinnamon Buns might walk in on me and see a webpage with a wedding dress on it!
Checking my phone on our wedding morning. Checking Weddingbee? Probably.
2) My Application Story
I’ve kept a blog for a while, I started on LiveJournal just after high school, then I moved to blogger and just focused on making it a knitting blog, then I got my own domain and switched to WordPress… I’d always like the idea of keeping a diary, but I was bad at actually writing things down. I kept a diary my entire grade 8 year, but I fell more and more behind, so I’d make tiny notes in my dayplanner that would jog my memory as to what happened so I could write about it later. I finished my grade 8 diary the day before grade 9 started. Then diaries fell by the wayside for me. A few years later, I discovered the blog. I immediately knew I wanted one because typing is so much faster that writing, and I found it easier to type a little summary of my day or a funny moment than it was to write the thing out by hand. And being able to add pictures in? Awesome!
Very soon after getting engaged, I knew I wanted to blog about my wedding. I wanted to have that record of that crazy time in my life, making decisions that you don’t make every day, maybe making some craft projects that would inspire other people. I blogged about the planning so far over the summer, all the time imagining I was writing for Weddingbee already. It was hard, because my blog had been a knitting blog up until that point, and the knitters didn’t seem to be interested in wedding planning. At least, they left very few comments. (Fun fact – the same posts run on my blog and Weddingbee. On my blog all my wedding posts have received a total of 18 comments!). I persevered because I had also realized that if I didn’t get to be a Bee, I’d still blog the planning so we could look back on it.
When I was almost exactly 8 months out (I think I was about 10 days early, but I was tired of the email sitting in my ‘Drafts’ folder!) I sent the email. It was just an email, no photos, no PowerPoints, no slideshows. Not even any pictures! I guess I thought that what they’re really going to be looking at is the blog, not the application.
Then two or three weeks later, I got the email saying I’d been accepted! The brunch generation had just been announced, which was awesome because breakfast is my favourite meal. I showed the icons to the Mr, and he started reciting a Demetri Martin comedy routine:
Cotton balls is an example of something I would buy, but would not want to have as a nickname.
This is my friend Leo, and this is Eric, and this over here is Cotton Balls.
Cinnamon buns on the other hand… yeah, I would buy those and have that as a nickname.
Excuse me, are you Cinnamon Buns?
You bet your sweet ass I am.
And so, we became the Cinnamon Buns. Quite appropriate, given how much we love to laugh.
3) What it’s like blogging for Weddingbee/being a bee?
It’s been great blogging for Weddingbee! I won’t lie, comments were the highlight of my days when I had posts go up. And it was so great to be able to pose questions to you guys – if those posts had just stayed on my personal blog, I wouldn’t have had any suggestions or answers or feedback. Comments are awesome.
Cinnamon Buns enjoyed my blogging here too; he has read every post of mine, and all the comments. When I was having trouble making decisions, if he couldn’t help me, he’d tell me to ask the hive!
It was also tough, trying to think of interesting things to write 3-4 times a week for 8 months. And yes, there were some times when I just felt too overwhelmed with work and actually planning the wedding to write blog posts. I always felt guilty about that though, and tried to come back from slumps with exciting posts, or at least some progress. Now I’m married and recaps are done, I’m trying to get my last few posts out before our first anniversary. Need to leave some blog space for the newbees!
I’ve met an awesome, awesome group of ladies here, and gotten to know so many new people! It’s been so great. My only regret: the Canada Post strike that prevented the bee charms that have been making the rounds getting to me on time. But it could have been worse, the strike could have been before our RSVP date!



























































































































































































































